Endurance

Teaching Kids Endurance

Teaching kids endurance can feel like you are role-modelling it just by being a parent. It’s a challenging job you persevere through in good times and bad. Like any relationship that you consider important and valuable.

Parenting has some challenges. These challenges help you grow and become a better parent, one that you want to be. If you’re reading this, that is a cue that you are open-minded and willing to step up for your child or grandchildren.

Throughout life, we all face difficulties and problems that we need to overcome – or endure. By helping your child understand that, they learn that this happens to everyone and that they are not alone. Everyone has conflicts in their life.

Teaching Kids Endurance

Children need to realise they are not different to anyone else. They also need to know that we all have our issues, and although some people will share their problems, their challenges will still be unique to them for numerous reasons.

Once children understand they are not alone, it is easier to think of the next step – how they can overcome their challenges.

Teaching your child about endurance means they recognise they have it in themselves and can call on it whenever needed.

Once your child learns that overcoming a problem means tapping into one of the inherent gifts they possess, in this case, endurance, they will have a constant source of support.

Endurance is not only a gift but also a formidable strength. Every character trait is. Character traits are like muscles – the more you use them, the stronger they get.

Confidence and resilience become stronger the more often character traits are used, just like muscles.

There’s a book called ‘Atomic Habits’ by James Clear. Teaching and reminding your child each week about a character trait is an atomic habit. Small things make a massive difference when done frequently over time.

In today’s society, educating your child about their characteristics is vital so that they become more self-aware.

You want your child to feel good about themselves and recognise positive and negative behaviour in themselves and others.

Teaching kids the power of endurance will be felt if you, as their parent or role model, enable their understanding by cultivating their character traits. Your child will be more equipped to face and cope with whatever experiences they may need to overcome throughout their precious life.

Trish Corbett
info@ethicalfoundations.com.au

Trish is the author of 'How to Raise Kids With Integrity - for parents, childcare educators and teachers' and blogs about a characteristic each week so that the main role models in a child's life can help children grow with self-awareness and self-confidence so they can make a positive difference in their world by recognizing and acknowledging character qualities in themselves and others. This works for adults too! Try it - sign up for a weekly email.

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