Honour

How to explain honour to children

Honour is hard to explain to kids except when you know the right words, concepts or metaphors to use.

Explain to your child that honour is deciding what behaviour they like to see in others that you want to grow in themselves.

These behaviours are also what some people value because it is what they believe are the hidden treasures inside people, including themselves.

At this point, you can also discuss with your child the importance of treating people as they would like people to treat them. Share with them that unfortunately, not everybody does this, and it’s always in their power to choose their actions.

Let them know that honouring yourself is discovering their hidden treasures such as kindness, caring, gentleness, appreciation and honesty. It is treating people, places and things with respect by appreciating their character qualities, respecting the environment and treating their possessions well.

Explain to your child that honour means doing the right thing even when no one is watching because it’s honourable behaviour, like not taking something that isn’t theirs, or stealing from someone.

 Honour is about doing the right thing by treating others with respect, honesty and fairness so that they can benefit from your actions. This is an outward expression of being honourable.

Integrity, however, is about staying true to their values and principles, regardless of what others might think or say. It’s about the motivation to behave honourably and make the right choices.

Three (3) ways you can suggest to your child to practice honour are:
1. Treating animals, the environment and their possessions with care and respect. Look after them.
2. Being honest, truthful and trustworthy, even when it’s hard.
3. Apologising to others when they have hurt them or been cruel.

By discussing with your child topics such as honour and integrity, you help them to understand what values they want to embrace.

Your child begins to form an idea of what they do and don’t want in friendships. Later in life, this impacts their intimate relationships.

Your child must constantly develop their understanding of ethical foundations in themselves and others.
It enables them to avoid people who may potentially do them harm or do not have their best interests at heart

Trish Corbett
info@ethicalfoundations.com.au

Trish is the author of 'How to Raise Kids With Integrity - for parents, childcare educators and teachers' and blogs about a characteristic each week so that the main role models in a child's life can help children grow with self-awareness and self-confidence so they can make a positive difference in their world by recognizing and acknowledging character qualities in themselves and others. This works for adults too! Try it - sign up for a weekly email.

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